How To Get Over A Breakup – The Man Up Show, Ep. 62:

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In episode 62 of Man Up, I answer the question: How do you get over a break up?

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Masculinity for the Intelligent Man. I am David Tian, Ph.D., and this is: Man Up!

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Hello, this is David Tian, Ph.D. and this is episode 62 of Man Up! I am back in Singapore. Pretty nice weather today, just hitting it on a weekend, I’m at the W Sentosa. Here it is to give you a little view of the pool, they got an amazing pool, I love the pool here. Great service. Very nice suite, two-bathroom suite. Almost always get upgraded to a suite. Living in the Starwood hotels so big loyalty props there. Big fan of some other chains but Starwood’s my first choice in most cases. Love the vibe of the W.

So anyway, there you go. Excuse the casual attire, heading to the pool in a little bit. Okay so episode 62, answering question from, oh and happy new year, I know you’re definitely watching this way into January, but for me because I was behind the firewall of China. This is the first episode of 2016. I’m done recording for 2015. So anyway, Happy New Year! Okay, question from the Facebook group, the private Facebook group, Man Up! And it comes from Go. His name is Go. It’s a really simple question. I mean I don’t even need to read it. It’s just “how does somebody get over a breakup?” He says it might be out of topic. I don’t know why he would think it would be out of topic. One thing I’ve been trying to do for years, back three or four years is to move out of pick up because you know some guys might think “pick up”.

I still get guys coming to the preview events or people messaging me asking pick up questions. How do I do this super-duper karate kid pick up on some girl like surrounded by fire and shit. I have no interest in those ridiculously stupid questions whatsoever. Even if you were to get a great answer to those, they will actually make you more needy. Pick up artists are already needy. So I don’t want to go there. This is not off-topic at all. This is right on topic, how do you get over a break up.

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